Posted by: brandiandboys | June 14, 2008

Happy Father’s Day

Pete started this great new tradition on Mother’s Day…if you blog about your spouse that replaces the need to purchase a card. He said he was trying to help the environment by preserving paper?? Regardless of his reasoning, I like the idea, so here it goes!

When I married my husband 11 years ago I knew I was marrying a man who would be a good father. But, I had no idea I was marrying a man who would be an incredible dad.

You see, my husband is a passionate and gifted person and has a lot on his plate. But, regardless of what is going on in his life, he realizes the importance of being a great dad to his three boys. Our boys know, without a shadow of a doubt, they come before any job or duty that Pete might have. He works hard to build their self esteem, recognizes their distinctions, and makes a practice of expressing to each one of them “You’ve got what it takes.” He loves their individuality as he relishes in being the father to three boys.

When I put the boys to bed tonight we had a little talk about how special their daddy was and what they would want him to know on Father’s Day.

Jett said, “Daddy is good at a lot of things, but he is best at being a Dad.”

Gage said, “My favorite thing about Dad is when he comes home from work.”

And even though Brewer doesn’t say much more than “Momma” which he usually screams at the top of his lungs, I know how he would answer because he and I have been attached at the hip (quite literally) for the past two years.

Brewer’s favorite thing about Daddy is when Daddy says “Bring it on.” Brewer will drop his blanket and pacifier and take off in a dead run to grab Daddy around the knees in an effort to take him down.

Pete, thank you for all the significant things you do that make you a great Dad. The journey of parenting is fun, exciting, exhausting, joyous, frustrating, demanding, rewarding, and constant…and I’m blessed to be able to take the journey with you.

I Love You,
Bran

And to my own Daddy, thank you for all the love you have showered on me the last 30-something years. You were the one, who by example, taught me to find a man who would be a fantastic dad. I love you!

PS – I did purchase you a card and it is on the way. I tried to get it in the mail early enough, but since it takes the USPS two-three days to deliver a card a two hour drive, it might not have made it. I apologize!


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  1. That sure was a very touching post… Im getting married soon.. and I believe my fiance is also going to make a good father.. It just feels so good when you see that side in a man right.. where he cares for children and plays with them and tries to understand them.. going to their level to be understood…
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  2. What a great tribute to your husband and the father and dad of your children. It is men like Pete who I look up to, learn from, and allow to challenge me to be a better husband and father. I don’t know Pete personally, but it is easy to see his Passion for his family through his blog and twitter.

    Thank you Pete for being a godly example to men around the world (literally) to the place your wife can freely and happily share your positive example to others. Some women cannot do that. The character of a man is not what he says about himself, but what others say about him.

  3. that’s a super sweet post. i hope it made pete’s day. happy father’s day to your whole family.

  4. I wish more young girls would consider what characteristics are going to make for a better daddy. Your boys are lucky Brandi…you chose well for them & certainly scored a good one!

  5. Beautiful Brandi!

    Dang! I bought Brent a card. I could have saved $3.59 and posted something for him instead ;)

  6. you got a good one there!

  7. Why you gotta go and make me cry? You know that I love your family, and you and Pete are definitely parents that we’ll look up to (and bug for tons of advice) when we have little ones!

  8. How old is your son Brewer? I mean I know he’s obviously two, but how many months? What you said about literally being attached at the hip for two years sounds EXACTLY like me and Jackson. He’s 22 months old. Although the sweetness of him being in love with his mama is wonderful at times, at other times it’s downright annoying. He hangs on me all day. And I’m just wondering, when will it end????? :)

  9. Brandy, you are indeed blessed.

  10. yes..thats true.. you are very blessed … :)


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